
YOUR SON IS INFINITELY VALUABLE, FULL OF WONDERFUL POTENTIAL AND DESERVES OUR BEST EFFORTS.
"I HELP YOUNG MEN AND THEIR PARENTS CO-CREATE A LIFE THEY CAN BOTH BE PROUD OF."
-JEREMY STOKER
Many young men fear adulthood. They want to mature, they want more responsibility, but they don’t know how or if they even they should. Many fail to understand that their greatest desires are waiting for them in adulthood.
As an Airline Captain and pilot with 28 years of experience I have discovered three critical steps from the aviation concept of ‘Pilot-in-Command’. The Captain is responsible. He or she is the "Pilot-in-Command", the ultimate authority of the aircraft. Whatever happens, the Captain will have to answer for the operation of the aircraft.
As young men embrace the fact that THEY are the ultimate authority of their life, that they have to answer for how they operate, then they want to know how to Command their life. Massive progress soon follows.
Their confidence grows and they make their parents proud.
Our eight video series, monthly group calls, weekly messages and more all build towards three critical steps.
- Command Your Thoughts
- Stop talking yourself out of progress. Progress is happiness-- if you're not as happy as you wish you're not making the progress you want.
- Gratitude = Resources. You have more than you imagine.
Discover your options by changing the way you think.
- Command Your Life
- Design with details
- Understanding the path to your potential
- The Four Keys of Success
- Prioritize or lose command
Design the life you want to have, not the life others think you should have.
- Command Your Today
- Confidence+Resilience+Grit = Manhood
- Your routines and habits are your life
- Training to be a man of character
With action every-single-day you rapidly compound your progress and confidence so you are the man you want to become.
How It All Began...
Parents...
You want the best for your family.
I only work with the best parents. Those who are motivated, open minded and willing to make real changes in their relationship with their son. I will not "fix" your son. He is not broken. We will work together to improve his skills, opportunities and confidence.
If you’re motivated, open minded and willing to make some simple changes in your relationship with your son then this program is right for your family. It works because you are the expert on YOUR son. We can learn the best way to move him forward – together.
You will have a team behind you. A mentor for your son, a team of parents facing the same challenges today and future challenges that you don't even see coming. Your son will have peers familiar with the program, finding success and progressing towards a future they want.
Right now - you’re looking for something to change, you’re looking for something real, something beyond the tips, tricks, life-hacks, memes and motivational videos. This is real! I won’t waste your time and you won’t waste mine- because we know exactly what OUR goal is – it’s that moment when you will feel more proud of your son than ever.
I’ve done it before, and I’ll do it again. I want to tell people about your son's success! And so do you.
We make parents proud. Guaranteed.
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MEET YOUR EXPERT
Born and raised outside of Seattle Washington, a city known for aviation, Jeremy Stoker has had an intense interest in aviation for as long as he can remember. At the age of 18 he earned his pilot license and later graduated Magna Cum Laude from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in December 2001. With the aviation industry in turmoil after 9/11 Jeremy had to face giving up on his dream of becoming an Airline Captain for the largest airline in the world. From this 18 year struggle, the Command Your Life program was born. Now with 27 years and nearly 10,000 hours of aviation experience in dozens of planes, he is an expert aviator and Captain on the Airbus A320. He has brought that expertise down to the ground to help young men design and live the lives they want using aviation-based principles. Jeremy has spent the last 5 years becoming an expert on today's young men. He is certified by leadership guru John Maxwell, trained by UK based coach Christian Simpson and public speaking expert Bo Eason.
Jeremy’s motivation was born out of tragedy. In May of 1997 Jeremy’s best friend took his own life at just 20 years old. His friend felt overwhelmed by the expectations of adult life. He was loved by hundreds of people but tragically he hid the depth of his depression and frustration from those who loved him.
Jeremy has made it his mission to provide guidance to young men as they progress into adulthood. They don't have to feel overwhelmed.
For over 20 years Jeremy has consistently volunteered to serve young men and women in church groups, local schools and the Boy Scouts of America. Jeremy cares about all young people but life's circumstances have inspired his focus toward young men. With his compassion, knowledge and experience he has changed the lives of many young men.
Jeremy currently lives outside of Dallas, Texas. He’s been married to his beautiful wife Adrienne for 22 years. He’s a proud father of two daughters, Brooklyn and Michelle and his son Kyle. He also loves dogs and has an obnoxious Border Collie named Cash.
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